Why dont some gay guys act fruity
Why do so many effeminate gay men prefer in their partners the very masculinity they've bleached out of themselves?
The obvious answer is that they're attracted to their opposites. But that address only goes so far. Effeminate men may lust for their masculine counterparts but most masculine men don't restore the favor.
Effeminate men get hoisted on their control chiffon petards. The more they grab on effeminate characteristics the less competent they are to attract the kinds of guys they want to hibernate with. This is a mating absurdity.
Imagine birds trying to attract mates with red and white plumage when the objects of their affection are attracted to yellow and green.
The mis-matched mating contact of the merry marys brings up a great question: If effeminacy is counter-productive to attracting the kind of sexual partners you want, then why not butch it up?
Is it because like being lgbtq+, being effeminate isn't a choice?
Nobody knows what fuels the gay flame -- nature or nurture. Some believe lgbtq+ guys turn sissy because they're naturally nelly and some think it's because they're conforming to a culture that expects it.
I've always maintained that effeminacy is like obesi
Is being gay a sin?
Answer
In order to answer the question “Is being male lover a sin?” we demand to challenge some assumptions upon which the doubt is based. Within the past fifty years, the term gay, as applied to homosexuality, has exploded into mainstream culture, and we are told that “being gay” is as much outside one’s rule as “being short” or having blonde hair. So the question is worded in a loaded way and impossible to adequately answer in that establish . We need to rest this question up and deal with each piece separately. Rather than demand, “Is being gay a sin?” we need to ask, “Is it sinful to have same-sex attractions?” And, “Is it sinful to engage in gay activities because of those attractions?”
Concerning the first ask, “Is it sinful to have same-sex attractions?” the answer is complicated. First, we should probably distinguish between (actively) sinning and (passively) being tempted:
Being temptedis not a sin. Jesus was tempted, but He never sinned (Matthew 4:1; Hebrews 4:15). Eve was tempted in the garden, and the forbidden fruit definitely appealed to her, but it seems that she did not actually sin until she took the fruit and ate it (Genesis 3:6&n
What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?
What Does The Bible Utter About Homosexuality?
Introduction
For the last two decades, Pew Research Center has reported that one of the most enduring ethical issues across Christian traditions is sexual diversity. For many Christians, one of the most frequently first-asked questions on this topic is, “What does the Bible say about attraction to someone of the identical sex?”
Although its unlikely that the biblical authors had any notion of sexual orientation (for example, the term homosexual wasn't even coined until the belated 19th century) for many people of faith, the Bible is looked to for timeless guidance on what it means to honor God with our lives; and this most certainly includes our sexuality.
Before we can bounce into how it is that Christians can maintain the authority of the Bible and also affirm sexual diversity, it might be helpful if we started with a short but clear overview of some of the assumptions informing many Christian approaches to understanding the Bible.
What is the Bible?
For Christians to whom the Bible is God’s very written word, it is widely understood that God produced its contents through inspired
Op-Ed: Don’t Fill Up On Chips – Queerness Through The Lens of The Front Bottoms
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The Front Bottoms are queer as hell. There, I said it. Now, what exactly does that mean?
There’s a lot to love about Novel Jersey’s foremost loser-pop duo, but what I’m drawn to most is their willingness to travel. It’s their inclination to paint with broad strokes in hopes that listeners can find a piece of themselves to cling to within their labor without having to sacrifice the catharsis that comes from specificity that makes them so extraordinary , and has kept me following them for nearly a decade at this point. This has been a direct of contention between their fans and the people that just don’t appear to get it. I understand that. A lot of the time, their lyrics borderline on nonsensical and complex to digest. So, if you’re not captured immediately by what this band is doing, I can see how it would be difficult to swallow. Yet, I’ve spent a lot of tune writer career fawning over the songwriting of The Front Bottoms’ Brian Sella, because I think this particular trademark of songwriting is the kind that takes the widest turns possible while still allowing the listener to rel
How fruity boys became the new soft boys
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“I love when beautiful girls have a little gay boyfriend. They just have a brief feminine, vintage Levi-wearing, tote bag-carrying, moustached little lover. He’s covered in the most random tattoos you’ve ever seen. His co-workers are shocked when he has this beautiful, stunning, amazing girlfriend, and they’re like, ‘Is she your cousin?’ And he’s enjoy, ‘No, I make kind, sweet love to her, and I worship her,’ and I think that’s really beautiful. I adore those couples.”
If you’ve been on TikTok lately, you may have seen fresh women showing off their “gay” boyfriends in viral videos to the audio above, created by Teen Vogue writer Ashleigh Carter (see below for an example). The women proudly stand beside their boyfriends in the videos, while the men are shocked by how well the sound describes their aesthetic. The comment sections are often filled with other women proclaiming that they, too, need a “fruity boyfriend” in their lives.
This wasn’t the first time I had reach into contact with the term “fruity” being used positively in the context of dating. Despite b